Caregiver Stress - Indicators

Source: Toronto Hospital

Do you have:

  • Muscle tightness, back and shoulder aches
  • Dragging headaches that never go away
  • Inability to sleep, waking in the night and being unable to get back to sleep, waking at dawn and lying sleepless for hours
  • Pains that wander around the body, disappearing from one place only to appear in another
  • Stomach, digestive, gastrointestinal problem without real physical cause
  • Restlessness so that even if you get a chance to rest and relax, you cannot do so
  • Gritting or grinding your teeth
  • Numerous small accidents, inability to concentrate
  • Mood swings, flying off the handle, weeping fits
  • Increased outbreaks of arthritis, bursitis and any other-itis
  • Increased reliance upon alcohol to relax, pills to sleep, tranquilizers to calm down
  • Decreased socialization
  • Fear of others, "can't-be=bothered" about others, blaming others for everything
  • Palpitations or chest pains not due to angina or heart trouble
  • Inability to carry out the normal tasks of life
  • Increased forgetfulness, so that you worry about whether you might have Alzheimer's yourself
  • Watching television for hours every day, even when you are not actually interested in the programs
  • Having a feeling of despair, being overwhelmed, depressed, overanxious
If you can tick off several items, you are suffering from stress and stress kills.

Karen's note: many of these symptoms also indicate depression which should be treated immediately. I know...it took me too long to figure mine out and do something about it.

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